Who would be mad? Who wouldn't??? Help!! Sorry kinda long but i need your help!?
My girlfriend and I had a relatively long discussion kinda fight thing about a month ago before she left to study abroad in France about her travelling with this guy in her group after her study abroad session was over. Basically I told her I didn't want her to travel with some guy I don't know, and she only knew just a little from a French class. This was after she changed her flight leaving France to be on his day, so she could travel with him. It got so heated she eventually agreed to go stay with her old French exchange student after her program was over. She is now in France studying abroad, and there are 24 people on the trip, only 4 guys on the trip and she has been spending alot of time with this guy. She says all she does is talk about me to him, and alot of times its not just her and him, but he always seems to be around her. She told me she asked him to go to her exchange student's house after the program was over, essentially disregarding our previous argument. From her perspective she says she doesn't want to travel alone, I should want her to be safe,and she doesn't like any of the girls she is studying abroad with. From my perspective, I don't know why she can't get to know the girls on her trip and travel with a girl or several girls and why she can't respect that it bothers me about her travelling with some guy I don't know. It also bothers me she would ignore everything we fought/talked about before we left, and then springs this on me while she is over there. Next weekend is her birthday and she told me that her, the dude, and 2 of her friends are going to a beach town for the weekend. She said the 4 of them are getting a hotel together and I flipped out. Do you think she should sleep in the same hotel room as this guy who I told her I didn't know and feel comfortable with her travellign with? Should I be upset at all? Am I overreacting?
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1 :
it is okay have a pationt if you have pationt the bad will be sweet you are not overreacting dont show her any feelings
2 :
Wow! I would FLIP if I were in your position with my boyfriend! How immature can your girlfriend get?! Seriously! I honestly would break it off with her. If she can't respect your wishes then she doesn't deserve your respect or trust. I don't think you are over reacting at all. She disregarded your wish and your conversation. That is a BIG no-no in a relationship! I could understand that she would want to talk and hang out, but I'm with you on why can't she make friends with the females? Why does she need to share a room, at a hotel, with this guy? I would end it. Now. :(
3 :
I'm not reading all that
4 :
lol your the jealous type i see :D but no j/k if that was my bf i would've left him a long time agoo.. staying in the hotell is not cool and she doesnt even know them that well.. it could be a risk to her.. yea maybe she's the shy type and doesnt want to get to know the other girls, that i can relate to but the other things uu mentioned are wayy over line. i really dont know what to tell u :/ u should leave her
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Actually...I agree with you completely. My ex did this to me. Constantly going over to this girls house "with friends" so I shouldn't worry right? 2 weeks later he kicked me to the curb. Its different for everyone. Maybe she's being completely honest! Maybe you are overreacting! But then again, maybe you SHOULD overreact. Offer to go with her on the beach trip and see what she says (If she's not in France, that is).
Title : Who would be mad? Who wouldn't??? Help!! Sorry kinda long but i need your help!
Description : Who would be mad? Who wouldn't??? Help!! Sorry kinda long but i need your help!? My girlfriend and I had a relatively long discussion ...