Am I a good daughter? Read below for more info. Sorry it's so long...?
Alright my dad has been married for a year now. Not only were me and my sister excluded from the fun part of the wedding like the limo, while my dad's wife's son was part of everything, we weren't treated nicely by her the way our dad was nice to her son but oh well on that part. I'm 16 years old, going to 11th grade and I had to move out with my dad when he got married, now I have no room for almost a year now and it just pisses me off, I have to sleep in the living room and on top of everything my dad pays the whole rent for the house. And her son gets the other room, my dad tried telling her to give me that room since her son sleeps in his grandma's anyways and she told him she's not kicking her son out of HER house. She's really mean and crazy. She fights with my dad if my little sister comes on a 9 hour flight to visit him and he buys my little sister something. She fights with him if he takes me and my sister to the park or beach. 2 weeks ago she was like take them to Disneyland when me and my son go somewhere, so he does and when she comes back, she fights with him. On top of everything her son has been and will be a rude little brat and she goes and tells my aunt, uncle, even my own father that it's all MY fault that her son is rude when I don't say anything to her or her son. As rude as she and her 10 year old son have been to me I just deal with it for my dad. Now I want to do something, I'm tired of it! I'm tired of her and her moods! Should I just go with my mom even though she can't work or have a car? Or should I do something about this lady? And my dad, he doesn't care about me, he never defends me when she says rude stuff. Am I a good daughter for not saying anything to her as much as I hate her and for going through this hell when I've seen enough like my dad beating up my mom for ten years, then for a gruesome custody battle? Please help me I don't know what to do anymore!
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Well, i can't say be a man since your a girl. But i know what it feels, i have a step mom too. Try to explain it to your Dad. And confront your step mom about this as soon as possible. If she doesn't listen then try to find a way out of this mess. Like living with your mom, your father has to pay her money for child support and stuff. Well i hope this works out for you as i have no more ideas =/.
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Yes you definitely are but stop being pushed around. Stand up to your step mother and father. Tell him how you feel. you've been through too much for this to happen. You probably don't deserve it and your dad needs to hear the truth. Telly our step mom off to and talk to your dad about how hurt you. It sounds like he loves his step son more than he loves you and thats just absolutely horrible. be upfront and honest. If you let this build for too long than that would be even worse because eventually all of your anger and frustration will come out and it will be ten times more worse.
3 :
instead of ur dad defending u defend urself also yep go live with ur mum andsay to ur dad "im not living with that b**ch" or something like that mail me for more help
4 :
no none of its your fault...talk to your mom first tell her what you dont like and what could happen is youo stayed with her...if you really want to leave save money or a car so you have transportation...ask her what you could do...if you brave enough stand up for yourself telling she needs to do something for the family not just her and here son...and tell your dad that he needs to be a dad and stand up for you but before you do have your cell phone by you or house and have a friends number dialed that way when it goes wrong you can hit the call button and they would be on there way...see if they could take you to your moms for a while...if your dad wants you to come back dont just say ok..you need to know that he will be there for you when you need him...and if they hit you dial 911...after that your most likly to stay with your mom...but have your mm make a deal...if you help around the house she will have to put some effort in too... hope i helped and bestest luck!!!
Title : Am I a good daughter? Read below for more info. Sorry it's so long...
Description : Am I a good daughter? Read below for more info. Sorry it's so long...? Alright my dad has been married for a year now. Not only were me...